Choosing a Lover

I recently began thinking about something sort of troubling. I’ve always been of the opinion (by always I mean in the last year or so) that things do tend to work out as they’re meant to, but I couldn’t imagine being in the type of situation where you’re faced with having to choose between two lovers.

Perhaps they both possess amazing qualities that you could easily see yourself spending your life with, but there’s still two of them.

It makes me wonder if there’s an intuition with that, or where the line would be between that and your mind trying to use other factors to reason it.

I hope I’m never in that situation, and it’d definitely be only a one-time thing I’m thinking. I suppose there could be a lesson in decision making and long-term foresight for the person making the decision. Hmm.

7 thoughts on “Choosing a Lover”

    1. In what context? This hasn’t happened to me, at least not at this point in my life. But this is assuming that you have already gotten to know the potential partners.

      How would you position that sort of conversation?

      1. Ha ha, oh I never had a lover in my life. It is a good curiosity to have a lover, that’s not going to happen till finances are much more favorable.

        To help answer your question… hmm… If speaking to a potential lover then speaking from the heart is good. Taking a deep breath and finding a way to sort out various thoughts is good, too. Or just wing it and see what happens, whats life without it’s avenues of experiences?

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